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Don't be a failed resolutions statistic. Be selective with goals and self-reflection partners.
Neelix IO Pty Ltd • June 14, 2021
Keep moving forward
Resolutions fail because we make and manage them with an implied time box. This means there is a subconscious “give up” clause. The proposition is that resolutions are worth making only if you are making them for life. All other intentions should remain as such for some time - if some work out, then you could promote them to a status of a resolution.
Success is about continuing with a challenge despite any gaps or even interim setbacks. Weakness only exists when you are conversing with your own self-pity, self-flagellation, self-regret. If this is you and those abstract participants, then change the company. It is easier said than done when there is someone or something in real life that is draining your energy away. Just remember - you are not alone! The light will shine through.
The most assured thing in life is change. Resolutions succeed when you embrace the change to its deepest possible implications and approach this with a completely open mind. In order to stay in control of such a process, you need
Ability to plot the path and treat data points with extreme hygiene in a private, self-reflecting environment
Be prepared to stop-start
Ability to visualise the causality
The choice of the right conversation opponent is yours - hopefully it is the projected stronger and happier self. Resolutions and goals tracking in Neelix is anchored on the concept of experience relationships and causality. You can map a non-linear path towards reaching a goal.
“If you can’t fly then run,
if you can’t run then walk,
if you can’t walk then crawl,
but whatever you do
you have to keep moving forward.” - Martin Luther King Jr.
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